Happy “Four-Day Weekend”

Let’s play the word-association game.

I say a word or phrase and you say the first thing that comes into your mind.

“Fourth of July.”

The number-one reply is “fireworks” followed by “holiday weekend.”

Many people are wondering if they get Friday and Monday off this week.

Today is a United States holiday and is actually called “Independence Day.”

Like so many things in our country, it continues to become more and more commercialized to the point where many people just consider it a “day off.” Or in this year’s case, two.

Obviously, anybody who went to elementary school knows that July 4, 1776 is the day the US earned its “independence” from Great Britain in the Revolutionary War. But I think we should always take a few minutes and think a little deeper on it.

While most wars are fought in the name of religion, power, or money; The US Revolution was fought for something much different. Freedom. 

What does “freedom” actually mean? If you were living in the USA 230 years ago, even though you were untrained, under-equipped, and significantly outnumbered, its something that you would have been willing to die for.

“Live free or die.” Have you ever wanted anything that badly? With a missions statement like that, a “why” that deep, its no wonder that the US prevailed.

OK, I digress.

Our country’s promise is, “Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.”

Tricky phrase. Is it happiness we aspire to, or simply “the pursuit?”

I’ve been allergic to rules and authority my whole life.

Freedom, to me, means being able to do what I want to do.

The pursuit of happiness is an every day thing in my world. Literally everything I do, is done in the pursuit of happiness.

I try to teach my young daughters that there’s no such word as “can’t.”

“Success,” I tell them, “comes in can’s!”

It makes me sad when I hear people saying they can’t do this, or they can’t do that. They’re stuck jobs they hate and lives they don’t appreciate. Their pursuit of happiness is quitting time on Friday every week.

What’s your pursuit? How close are you to your freedom?

Do you have to ask for permission to leave work early?

Do you feel guilty to miss work when you’re sick? Even use an “extra-sick voice” on the phone when you call the boss?

What if you want extra time off for something?

Yeah, I understand that rules and structure are important in civilization. But aren’t they just in place to keep people in line?

If you ask me, asking permission is for children. Not grown adults.

This Independence Day, my wish for you is that you may walk in freedom over everything that once held you captive. That you discover a more passionate approach to your own “pursuit of happiness” this year. Whatever that “happiness” may be.


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One thought on “Happy “Four-Day Weekend”

  1. Linda Ashley says:

    Hi Tommy. You said this so well. I love the independence that doing what we do gives us! Thanks for being an inspiration to so many!


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